Preschoolers are very curious about their world. They are learning to play with others and have reached the age when they are becoming more independent. This can be both a difficult and exciting time for parents. Attending preschool helps children learn the social and academic skills necessary to begin a successful school career. However, some parents and children may have anxiety about this new experience for a number of reasons. There are several things parents can do to help make this important transition a success. Like adults, when students know what to expect, they are less anxious. Reading a story about the first day of school helps the child learn what to expect and gives them the opportunity to express their concerns with their parents. It also gives parents a chance to express confidence in their child's ability to have a great experience. If parents are overly anxious about the first day of school their children will pick up on this and may develop fear and anxiety about the separation. Be sure to talk about school in a positive manner and reassure your child that he/she will be safe and that the teacher is there to help. If parents remain calm and confident on the first day of school, their children will be more calm and confident. Visit the school website so that you and your child can become familiar with the staff and school environment. The website also keeps parents informed of current events and valuable information. If you are concerned that your child may have extreme anxiety, please let me know. Your child may need a transition object such as a family photo, blanket, or small stuffed animal for a few days to help them feel safe and comfortable. Establishing a consistent daily routine for awaking, meal times, going to school, homework, playing and sleeping is very helpful. I am confident that within a few days and with continued regular attendance you and your child will successfully adjust. I look forward to working with you and your child!
